Sometimes It is very easy to tell what is right and what is wrong to the school age kids because they have grown enough to know the differences between the right and wrong. I am writing these 10 tips to use for disciplining your child, some of them might help you to disciplining your child, You have to keep this in mind that every child thinks the different way so you have to control yourself and make him feel that he / she is secure no matter what happens because children who feel secure are more likely to control their impulse which provides you a more peaceful atmosphere at home.
Sometimes it happens due to loads of work stress, financial problems and sleepless nights but setting up a good example is more important. Yelling is not the solution every time, If you speak slowly in a low tone it is more likely that your child will be more attentive and this would help your child to understand things in a better way.
I had seen many times parents punish their little children by grounding them for a long time, Do you want to stick with that kind of punishment for you? Did you ever think that is this the only option? , Well sometimes it works but it has worst effects on mental behavior of your child
A day out in a park and you are playing football with your kid if he / she is playing nice and his behavior is good with others then telling him that he is doing great would really help him to boost his self-confidence
If you can’t lock your child for 2 months then don’t say it , because empty threats will spoil parent child relationship and he will realize quickly that you are not going to follow what you said and they will stop listening
If you are for a shopping at a store with your kid and he start touching things when he / she is not suppose to do and stop listening to you, then best option would be to leave the store and save your shopping for next day, This will slowly realize him
Explaining your “no’s” will make your child understand that why he shouldn’t do certain things, So just “no” is not the solution
When your kid is doing right you should get him rewards and it will help him to realize that doing right things and listening to what parent say will get him toys or games
Make your kid realize that what other feels when they do something wrong, for example if your kid kick his classmate then telling him politely that this was wrong and how the other kid felt would help him not to do this again
Establishing a schedule have great impacts on discipline, When your child know that 5pm is bath time and 7pm is books time it will help to remove bad things from his head because he / she will be busy in following the schedule
Tell your child that what do you expect from him before going to a certain place would help him to behave good, for example if you are going to a family gathering and you tell him that you expect from him to behave good and listen to what his / her elders say will have surely help to build his discipline