Marriage is an important sacred ceremony between two people who are not just in-love but who believe in the sanctity of a wonderful relationship. Its purpose is to create life and build family. It is a gift that can be reciprocated through a legal ceremony, which is prescribed by law, which was established anciently. This is not just a tradition but also a commandment being observed by everyone who was taught that love should be shared between a man and a woman. Nonetheless, there is a strong proposition that special feelings between two people of the same sex should also have the same privilege that others are enjoying. Debates and arguments have been made if this is really a valid act to be sustained or not. Here are the 10 most significant reasons why same-sex marriages should not be legalized:
10. Lower Life Expectancy
Admit it or not, there are associated diseases that would affect mortality of individuals who are engaged in unsafe sex especially that the typical way of expressing and sharing it would result to various diseases. This is just the primary effect. There are other psychological disorders that were noted, which are clinically proven and supported by figures and facts. Homosexuality is not being condoned generally or personally, but for health concern and security. It is being opposed by medical experts themselves.
9. Wrong Foundation in Society
This is not a question of personality but the weakening effects it could generate to individuals who are fragile, innocent, and young. They would have a wrong concept and definition of everything that they see. Social norms and traditions would change and it would be a challenge for everyone to accept it since majority opposes to this idea.
8. Way to Unacceptable Behaviors
It would inculcate wrong perception and ideas about freedom. It would trigger unlikely and unruly behavior not just to these people who cannot identify themselves in specific gender since this is an apparent and very evident weakness. In fact, there could be odd ideas that someone could marry anyone or even anything that exists.
7. Divorce Rate Will Increase
Although divorce is legal in some countries but it does not mean that everyone could simply file a divorce if they are fed up with their relationship or other personal concerns would arise. In fact, if same-sex marriages would be legalized, everything would be easier, anyone could just go out of marriage relationships, especially those who are experiencing identity crisis and are within the bonds of marriage.
6. Children Will Be Confused
I hope this would not create any offenses to anyone. If there is someone in the world that we must be concerned about, it is not about passing of this bill or legalizing it to be a law. Young ones are being taught that there are only people created in the world, which are categorized as male and female. This is being supported with the curriculum at school. It is part of the right identification of their personality. If this will push through, there is a big possibility that it might be included and discussed within the class. Some who are confused would be more dumbfounded, may find themselves not trusting their parents, and would just accept what the law sets and not the inherent concepts of right and wrong.
5. Power of Procreation Will Cease
This is the major purpose of marriage, which is to create family. Of course, some would say that they can still adapt children and treat as their own but confusion might arise and other social problems would take place. Power of procreation is a special sacred gift, which is holy given to all who underwent the covenant of marriage. This is instituted and approved between a man and a woman who have accepted the matrimony of marriage.
4. Laws Will Be Diluted
This is the scary and frightening argument and predicament that the society might witness. If this will be approved and acknowledged as legal, it would open to all other possibilities of unacceptable ideas that might be considered valid. Some of the issues, which are still in debate that could have an inch hope higher if this proposal would continue, are the practice of multiple marriages, and other immoral acts that could lead to demoralization of the society and younger generations.
3. Courts Rejected It
Despite of the strong movement coming from the third-sex group that it should be legalized, majority still rules. In fact, even higher courts have rejected it. Despite of the unaccepted ruling done by the California Supreme Court for allowing same-sex marriage to be judicial and implementable, it caught criticism not just within the United States but even worldwide.
2. Marriage Will Be Deemed Lightly
If people today are taking everything lightly and have trampled the sanctity of power of sacredly creating life, it also connotes that they do not value the power and influence of marriage to every individual. In fact, statistics have shown that early pregnancy and abortion has increased largely and greatly by 20% because of the idealism and modernization that the world is undergoing. The conservative and right is still at its position that marriage must take place and not the idea of trial and error relationship.
1. It is a Sin
No matter how we twist every angle and argument of the facts, it is specifically condoned by religious groups. Whether you are Christian or not, people find it degradable to the moral values being taught within our homes, schools, and other social circles. Although separation of state and Church must be observed, but moral conscience must be followed also. This is not irrational but this is the meaning of RIGHT from the so-called RIGHTS inculcated to the minds of some who are active and enthusiastic in legalizing it.
The perception stated on this article is not to cause humiliation, deprivation, and discouragement to some who are in-love and would want to share the same experiences that others have. It is under the cause of truth, right, and values that must be preserved and protected.
What a crock of SH*T. Let’s correct their viewpoints shall we?
10. Lower Life Expectancy “It is being opposed by medical experts themselves.”
HAH – REALLY? First, the idea of ANYBODY getting married automatically assumes that the couple in question will be in a MONOGAMOUS relationship. If the religious-right are truly concerned about the well being of gay people, they should be ENCOURAGING marriage. Second, how about that AIDS epidemic that’s going on in Africa? You know, all those Africans (gay AND straight) who had Catholicism inflicted upon them are contracting the disease because the Vatican has deemed contraception immoral.
9. Wrong Foundation in Society “weakening effects it could generate to individuals who are fragile, innocent, and young”. Well, maybe those who have been deliberately sheltered by the church their entire lives. But for the rest, the intelligent objective types, are doing just fine. In the 10-plus years there has been same-sex marriage in Canada, no children have been institutionalized as a result of a same-sex couple getting married.
8. Way to Unacceptable Behaviors “It would trigger unlikely and unruly behavior” You mean like standing on the sidewalk with protest signs that say “God Hates FAGS!”? Or acting as a politician who goes on an “anti-gay” stance while at the same time is blowing the pool-boy?
7. Divorce Rate Will Increase. Wait… WHAT? Ummm…. straight people are already getting divorced in case you haven’t noticed regardless if someone is having an identity crisis [of being gay]. Even if it were true, what about the poor spouse who has dedicated to living their lives with a LIAR? And no one has ever said “Gays are getting married? That’s it! Honey, I’m leaving you”
6. Children Will Be Confused. Children can potentially be confused about ANYTHING in life which is why it is so important to be honest and truthful rather than indoctrinating them into the dogmatic ignorance of religion. My very own daughters attended a lesbian wedding (my cousin) when they were 8 & 10, and they are no worse for wear today (13 & 15)
5. Power of Procreation Will Cease. Umm….last time I checked, there were BILLIONS of people on the planet. Also, lesbian couples are capable of contributing to the species by having artificial insemination.
4. Laws Will Be Diluted. ” it would open to all other possibilities of unacceptable ideas” The same thing was said during the civil rights movement, and the equality of the sexes movement, etc.
3. Courts Rejected It. Not ALL courts… especially in other parts of the world, like Canada where same-sex marriage has been legal for over 10 years now, and no major laws have been broken.
2. Marriage Will Be Deemed Lightly. Really? The gay community seems to be taking it seriously. As already mentioned, there have been divorces and infidelity among straights LONG before the idea of gay marriage. If anything, allowing gay marriage would set a good example for the rest of us.
1. It is a Sin “it is specifically condoned by religious groups” These are the people who believe their imaginary friend actually exists. Even IF there were a “god”, it is not your place to act on his behalf. If gays and gay marriage is truly a sin, then let god handle it. If you don’t like the idea of a gay getting married – then don’t marry one.
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I will be deleting my rss feed as well. This list sounds like ancient bigoted history already.
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Seems Like We have Too many Gays Around
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Great post. I love it. And totally disagree with Murrayc’s post. What is this world coming to? I am fed up with how accepting of this topic the world is getting. Of course it is a sin. What if some 45 year old wanted to marry a 9 month old child or if someone wanted to marry a elephant. We can’t think that is wrong? According to the comment above he says it is not are place to act as god and judge. But there comes a point where you have to draw a line. Of course same sex marriage is wrong. Great post!! And anybody who is for same sex marriage has something very wrong within themselves.
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Oh noes! So this site will lose 3 fags from reading it! Be lucky that being angry about this post is the WORST of your problems,queers….in a perfect world, you’d all be lined up and shot like the sick deviants that you all are….
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If you guys writing this are religious, following the word of God and still saying that being gay is a “sin” and that they should be lined up and shot then you haven’t truly understood the word of God.That’s sick, and cruel.
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If were there will be a zombie apocalypse, I’d be like them red necks with my shotgun shooting them homing and using ‘They were zombies’ as an alibi HAHA HAHAHA!
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Hey, as a woman should I start sleeping with women, instead of men as you seem to advise in your first point. It’s well documented that women are more likely to get an STD from a male partner, that marrying a man decreases our life expectancies and that presumably if I were seeing a woman I wouldn’t have to worry about the health risks associated with unintended pregnancy and childbirth, or the risks to my health of the hormonal contraception I use to prevent that from happening.
The rest of your points were just as well though through. Re. No.4 – you’re right! We might end up giving civil rights to old people, black people or bigots like yourself it we’re not careful!
/Sarcasm/
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