They say it’s a very tricky job to grab what’s there in a girl’s mind. It’s hard to predict what she demands from you; be it understanding her state of mind, her wants and needs, her expectations or the amount of care you owe to her, whatever the case maybe. You need to be peculiar about the ways of treating her. Furthermore, you need to pay attention to what should be said or not said too. Some words uttered can be troublesome for you, following are the 10 things never to be said to a girl
10. Never ask her to pay the bill;
As far as the norms have taught me, ‘There is one abiding rule when it comes to it-the person who requests for the pleasure, pays for the pleasure’- David Miller. So attractive women expect men to pay for their bills because they’re just ‘worth it’. You’re not enough of a gentleman if you are unaware of the fact that you are the one who has to pay; that’s what she has in her mind, so if you don’t want to ‘spoil’ it; just pay it.
9. Never ask her to keep your secret;
Yes! She’s the one who can spread your word around with the speed of light, specifically when you ask her not to. Even if she tells her BFF only, the job is done efficiently by the latter. She’s quite good at it, better not take a risk!
8. Never to ask her about her depressing mood;
It can be very strenuous to understand a girl’s mind. If you question her reason of her miserable temperament, you need to prepare yourself to make a million attempts to take it out of her. Once revealed you’re not allowed to confront her point of views or else the argument initiates. Let alone that one reason for it, heaps and heaps of other traumatizing information is delivered too. By the end of it the sadness reciprocates in you and you feel like you’ve taken one hell of a ride!
7. ‘I think you should join a gym’, not a good idea.
Naturally girls, in most cases, are never satisfied with their bodies. Practically, she herself would want to go to a gym, but if a guy suggests her to do so, a bad option it is and it generally leads to an argument.
6. Praise someone else, it’s your bad day!;
If you want to keep her laughing and in a cheerful mood, better not praise another girl in front of her or else get ready to see the frown on her face. Every girl (mostly) in a way wants her to be the center of attention for her guy and that she’s the best for him. Keep all her positives in your mind so that you avoid admiring someone else. If you want to, be witty enough to praise your girl in a better way right away!
5. I promise: never to be said!
Promise her something, if you don’t keep it; welcome yourself to hell! When you say that, make sure that you will be able to fulfill your words (mostly you can’t), or sharpen up your abilities of never getting caught. A promise is what she would remember for the rest of her life, if broken, you’re just not worth it; she would never believe you again and it would be brought up as a pointer in every future quarrel.
4. ‘Are you sure that looks good on you?’ better not say that;
generally girls don’t like that question being asked. Even if it is swallowed in as a joke; she would give it thinking. Mostly she’s quite careful about her dressing and accessories; therefore any pessimistic comment would end up making her ‘touchy’ about it. So it’s a complete no-no.
3. ‘I think I’ve seen you somewhere’: it’s a well-known dialogue to her;
Well even if you HAVE seen her somewhere, avoid expressing it to her; she won’t take it literal and would tick the ‘he’s hitting on me’ box in her head right away.
2. Never tell her you love her unless you actually do;
‘I love you’ are ‘the words’ which every girl wants to hear in her life at least once. Once she does, she pumps up her expectations to higher levels and doesn’t wish to be thrown down the staircase. Customarily, she gets serious and expects the bond to last forever, so make sure you zip up your mouth until you’re not sure about it. An ‘I love you’ expressed earlier, before either of the gender has properly processed the feelings, could end it all up because as soon as it is said the entire dimension is changed.
1. Never ever criticize Edward Cullen or Damon Salvatore!
You do it and you open a gateway to hell. A mammoth majority of girls are fanatical about these two characters. You do that and you might just be throttled! Mention either of them and you will find them head over heels. So better not risk your neck for showing your not-so-fond-of-them attitude because they are going to be crazy for them, no matter how many sensible arguments you put forward: a complete wastage of time it will be!